113. Dealing with False Acquisitions in the church : Trusting God, not men

In times when the Church is rocked by scandal—whether real or fabricated—it is crucial to anchor our trust not in men, but in God alone. “It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man” (Psalm 118:8). Human leaders, no matter how anointed or respected, are still fallible. They can sin, they can stumble—and sadly, at times, they can be falsely accused.
Scandals in the church hurt deeply. Whether it’s a shocking revelation about a beloved leader, financial misconduct, abuse, or even false accusations — these moments leave many feeling betrayed, disillusioned, or angry. Some begin to question their faith altogether. Others feel pressured to stay silent to “protect the church’s reputation.”
But here’s the truth: God is not surprised, and He is not shaken.
When scandals occur, we must:
  • Seek truth, not gossip. Proverbs 18:17 warns that, “The first to speak seems right, until someone comes forward and cross-examines.” Be slow to form conclusions and fast to seek God’s wisdom.
  • Pray more than we post. The temptation to comment, judge, or speculate can be strong. But intercession accomplishes far more than opinion.
  • Hold leadership accountable—but biblically. If sin is real, it must be exposed and dealt with in love and righteousness (Galatians 6:1). If accusations are false, we must defend truth and protect the innocent. If there's wrongdoing, there must be consequences — regardless of someone's title, popularity, or years in ministry. This is not about vengeance, it’s about integrity. That may mean outside investigations, leadership changes, or public repentance. And we must reject clericalism — the dangerous belief that pastors, priests or leaders are above reproach. No one is too “anointed” to be corrected.
  • Trust in the unshakable character of God. Men may fail, but “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8).
  • Stop pretending. Minimizing wrongdoing, spiritualizing it away, or staying silent causes more harm. When leaders fall, we must name the wrongs clearly — whether it’s abuse, manipulation, moral failure, or corruption. And most importantly: we must recognize the pain of victims. Their trauma is not an “inconvenience” to the church — it’s the very place Jesus would be. He listened. He wept. So must we.
  • So often, the voices of those harmed go unheard for years — even decades. That must change. Support them with: safe spaces to speak, counseling and trauma care, legal or financial aid when needed. Also, don't rush anyone into forgiveness. Healing is not a checkbox — it’s a journey, and it looks different for everyone.
Let us not be disillusioned when men fall or when evil plots arise. Let it deepen our hunger for holiness, increase our dependence on the Spirit, and sharpen our vigilance. The enemy may attack—but God's Church, refined in fire, will stand.
Now, in a world where truth is often distorted and reputations can be destroyed in an instant, false accusations are a painful and very real weapon. They can ruin lives, divide communities, and leave scars that take years to heal — even if the accused is eventually vindicated.
Scripture doesn't shy away from this reality. In fact, Jesus Himself was falsely accused, repeatedly and viciously. And how He responded offers us both a model and a warning.
Jesus Faced False Accusations — And He Warned Us We Would Too: From the beginning of His ministry, Jesus was accused of all sorts of things:
Being a drunkard and glutton (Matthew 11:19); Operating under Satan’s power (Mark 3:22); Blasphemy (John 10:33); Threatening to destroy the temple (Matthew 26:61); Stirring political rebellion (Luke 23:2) etc.
At His trial, false witnesses were even brought in to testify against Him (Matthew 26:59-60). Yet Jesus remained silent at key moments — not out of weakness, but out of strength rooted in the will of the Father.
“He was oppressed and afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth; He was led like a lamb to the slaughter.” — Isaiah 53:7
Jesus knew that truth, in time, would be revealed — and that His identity came from the Father, not public opinion.
What Do We Learn from Him?
  • Truth doesn’t always win in the short term — but it does in the end. Jesus died with false accusations hanging over Him. But three days later, resurrection vindicated Him. Justice may be delayed, but it’s never denied in God’s timeline.
  • We don’t have to answer every lie — but we must live in such a way that they don’t stick. Peter writes, “Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that… they may see your good deeds and glorify God” (1 Peter 2:12).
  • Don’t fear being falsely accused. Fear living falsely. Integrity doesn’t guarantee an easy life — but it guarantees that when fire comes, your foundation holds.
So How Should We Respond to False Accusations Today?
  • Be Discerning, Not Naive: Not every accusation is true — even if it’s emotional, detailed, or passionately delivered. Investigate carefully. Scripture says, “The first to speak seems right, until someone comes and examines him” (Proverbs 18:17). Don’t rush to judgment — in either direction.
  • Don’t Retaliate — Let God Defend You: It’s tempting to clap back, prove people wrong, or “clear your name” by any means necessary. But sometimes silence, paired with consistent integrity, speaks louder. “When they hurled their insults at Him, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats. Instead, He entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.” — 1 Peter 2:23. Let your life speak. Let time speak. Let God speak.
  • Stay Humble Even When You’re Innocent: False accusation can easily give rise to pride: “I didn’t do it — I’m better than them.” But Jesus, though sinless, remained humble. So must we. Our innocence doesn’t make us morally superior — it makes us grateful for grace.
  • Support Due Process for All: We must protect the accused as well as the accuser until truth is known. Both deserve dignity and fairness. Emotional reactions may feel right in the moment — but wisdom requires patience, evidence, and prayer.
  • Live Above Reproach: Paul told Timothy that leaders must be “above reproach” (1 Timothy 3:2) — not perfect, but pressing on to perfection. If accusations do arise, your consistent character will be your best defense.
Final Word: Be Wise as Serpents, Innocent as Doves
Jesus calls us to be both:
Serpents — sharp, aware, not easily manipulated.
Doves — pure, gentle, and full of grace.
This balance helps us navigate a world where not all accusations are true, but all people matter. Where some seek justice, and others seek destruction.
As followers of Christ, we must stand for truth — not bandwagons. We must defend the innocent — not protect our tribes. And we must keep our hearts clean — no matter what’s thrown at us. Because in the end, it is God who justifies (Romans 8:33).
It’s easy to become disillusioned with Christianity when the people who claim to follow Jesus don’t reflect His heart. Scandals, hypocrisy, spiritual abuse — these things can leave deep wounds, and for many, cause them to walk away from the Church entirely. But here’s an important truth we can’t afford to miss: Jesus is not the sum total of His followers’ failures.
Christians may misrepresent Him, fall into sin, or act out of pride and self-interest. But Jesus never did. He never manipulated, shamed, abused, or lied. In fact, Jesus often challenged the religious leaders of His day — the ones who looked holy on the outside but whose hearts were far from God. He called out hypocrisy, defended the oppressed, and welcomed those who had been pushed away by the religious system. If you've been hurt by Christians, it's important to know: that wasn’t Jesus.
Don’t judge the perfection of Christ by the imperfection of people. The failures of Christians do not change the character of Christ. If anything, they remind us how deeply we need Him. So if you’ve been wounded or turned off by religion, give Jesus another look. Read His words for yourself. You may find He’s not who you thought He was — He’s far better.
Spiritual leaders carry a sacred responsibility, but they are still human — battling the same flesh, temptations, and discouragements as anyone else. The weight of leadership can be isolating, exhausting, and spiritually intense. That’s why Scripture urges us to pray for them (Hebrews 13:17, 1 Timothy 2:1–2). Not blindly, not to excuse sin, but because they need God’s strength just as much — if not more — than those they serve. Pray earnestly for your leaders. Lift them up, not on pedestals, but before the throne of grace, that they may walk humbly, wisely, and faithfully in a very real battlefield.