Lust is the disordered craving for sexual pleasure or physical gratification outside the boundaries God intends. It is more than natural attraction or desire; it is the misuse of desire for self‑gratification, often treating others as objects rather than as persons made in the image of God.
The Bible repeatedly warns against this sin. “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body” (1 Corinthians 6:18). Jesus also taught, “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (Matthew 5:28). Lust is therefore not only a physical act but a condition of the heart.
Lust and wrath are two sins that Jesus speaks of with striking seriousness, warning that they endanger the soul itself (Matthew 5). In both cases, Jesus shows that sin begins in the heart long before it appears in action, and that unchecked lust and wrath are not minor weaknesses but serious spiritual dangers with eternal consequences.
Jesus even said, “If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away; it is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell” (Matthew 5:29). While this is hyperbolic language, it emphasizes the radical action required to remove sin from our lives.
Early Christian teachers recognized lust as a force that enslaves the soul and corrupts relationships. They observed that it thrives on secrecy, fantasy, and self‑indulgence. Lust distorts love, reducing intimacy to a tool for pleasure instead of a reflection of commitment and respect.
The desert fathers emphasized vigilance of the heart and mind, warning that unchecked desire leads to moral and spiritual ruin. Lust, they taught, is subtle because it often presents itself as natural, harmless, or even unavoidable, yet it has the power to dominate and weaken character if left unrestrained.
The problems lust causes are many. Spiritually, it separates the soul from God by replacing devotion with selfish gratification. Emotionally, it fosters shame, guilt, and dissatisfaction, because physical desire alone can never satisfy the deepest human longings. Relationally, lust destroys trust and intimacy, treating people as means rather than ends. In modern life, it can appear not only as sexual immorality but also as pornography, objectification, and obsession with appearance or fantasy.
Overcoming lust begins with self‑discipline and a conscious turning of the heart toward God. Scripture encourages believers to “set their minds on things above, not on earthly things” (Colossians 3:2), reminding us that desire should be guided by righteousness and love, not self‑indulgence.
Practical steps include guarding the eyes and thoughts, fleeing situations of temptation, cultivating pure relationships, and redirecting passion toward healthy expression within God’s design. Prayer and accountability are essential tools, helping believers surrender impulses to God’s transforming power.
Radical, decisive action like removing constant triggers of temptation is necessary to break the grip of sin. As Paul wrote to the Corinthians, “Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never!” (1 Corinthians 6:15), showing that even physical desires must be subordinated to spiritual obedience.
The good news is that if Paul and other faithful servants of God were able to overcome lust through dependence on the Holy Spirit, so can you. Scripture is filled with examples of God’s power transforming human weakness. Prayer, accountability, fasting, and persistent self-examination are essential tools, helping believers surrender impulses to God’s transforming power.
Ultimately, lust is overcome through a life of holiness, devotion, and love that sees others as God does. The early Church consistently taught that desire must be ordered toward God and His purposes, rather than consumed by selfish pleasure. When the heart is focused on honoring God and valuing others as made in His image, lust loses its grip, and freedom, integrity, and true intimacy flourish.
St. Augustine – “The soul becomes like what it loves; when it loves the flesh above the spirit, it sinks to the level of the flesh.”
St. John Cassian – “Impurity of heart is not conquered without unceasing vigilance and the grace of God.”
Thomas Watson
– “Lust is a brutish sin; it turns men into beasts and steals away the heart from God.”